Napoleon’s Romantic Gift: The Story Behind Toi et Moi Rings

In 1796, Napoleon Bonaparte gave his beloved Joséphine a ring that would become a timeless symbol of love: a Toi et Moi ring — “you and me” in French. The ring featured two gemstones, one for each of them — a diamond and a sapphire, side by side in perfect harmony. The dual composition represented two souls united in love, and throughout history, this style has become one of the most iconic symbols of romance.

At Nangi, we’ve reimagined this story in our own way — inspired by conscious luxury, fine craftsmanship, and sustainable materials.

Explore our Toi et Moi rings here

A Ring with History — and Meaning

Toi et Moi rings quickly became popular among Europe’s aristocracy and artists, and in recent years, they’ve experienced a renaissance as modern engagement rings. While traditional solitaire rings celebrate a single stone, the Toi et Moi design honors what happens when two people come together — contrast, harmony, and connection.

In our designs, we often combine a lab-grown diamond with a natural sapphire from Sri Lanka — two gemstones with distinct stories, yet shared values. Our sapphires are sourced from partners we know personally, and our diamonds are created in state-of-the-art laboratories with precision and care.

Together, they represent love without compromise — a luxurious expression of modern romance where ethics and aesthetics go hand in hand. Learn more about how gemstones are sourced here

Above: Toi Et Moi stacked with Swan Tail

Napoleon’s Legacy, Reimagined

Where Napoleon’s ring once stood as a declaration of love in the 18th century, today’s Toi et Moi rings embody independence, individuality, and personal style. Many choose to pair two gemstones that mirror one another — such as a blue-green sapphire and a lab-grown diamond in an oval cut — or two colored stones that represent the many shades of love.

At Nangi, you can create your own Toi et Moi ring, where every choice — from gemstone shape to gold type — carries meaning. Each piece is handcrafted in pure gold by our RJC-certified goldsmith in Colombo, Sri Lanka, ensuring responsible gold sourcing, ethical working conditions, and full traceability.

Above: Bespoke Toi et Moi design, created for our dear client as a push present. Design your dream piece.

A Ring That Tells Your Story

Every Toi et Moi ring from Nangi is more than jewelry — it’s a story of love, craftsmanship, and conscious choices. We believe true luxury is about knowing where beauty comes from — and choosing materials that endure, both in form and in value.

Whether you fall for the timeless combination of diamond and sapphire, the playful contrast of ruby and topaz, or dream of designing your own one-of-a-kind pairing, you’re part of something greater — a journey toward a greener, more conscious form of luxury.Try our custom ring designer here

Above: Explore our Serendip Collection

Toi et Moi — For You and the One You Love

The Toi et Moi ring remains a timeless symbol of two becoming one — and choosing each other, every day. At Nangi, you’ll find Napoleon’s romantic legacy retold for our time — with love for craftsmanship, people, and the planet.

Above: Find your signature style with a matching pair of earrings and necklace.